Saturday Service: Greek Community Service Work with the Tacoma Rescue Mission

When you think of how college students spend their Saturdays, standing in the community service isn’t often thing that comes to mind. What may be even more surprising to some is how often those students rising early on their days off are “Greek”, or members of fraternities and sororities on campus.

It shouldn’t be however, Greek organizations are some of the most active service groups on campus. Each year, Greek organizations at Puget Sound. This past weekend served as just one example of what kind of service students might do.

Last Saturday, I got the opportunity to go out with 35 members from all different fraternities and sororities from campus (there are 3 fraternities and 4 sororities) and do some yard work and maintenance for the Tacoma Rescue Mission’s Tyler Family Campus.

Here is the group of us just after finishing our work.

The campus fuctions as transitional housing for come of Tacoma’s homeless. As such, the campus directors work to keep the place as neat as possible to help these individuals reestablish a sense of order in such a hectic period of their lives. Responding to this focus, we did whatever was needed to help keep the place in order. This included removing sticks, picking up trash, weeding, and some deep cleaning in some of the facilities’ structures.

Despite the consistent drizzle of rain, it was great to get out and get ur hands dirty helping the Rescue Mission, something we will be back to do again in the near future.

Each year, members fraternities and sororities at Puget Sound contribute thousands of  of community service to the surrounding community. Whether cleaning up the local Puget Creek, helping serve the cities underfed at St. Leo’s food bank, or working to keep transitional housing, Greek houses are constantly involved with a variety of organizations helping to make our city a better place. And not to mention, we have a blast doing it!

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Life After Abroad – The Future

So I studied abroad and now I am back. For the ‘Abroad Life’ posts (which may be more interesting) see the Adventures Abroad site. For what in the world I am doing with my life now stay tuned.

People often ask me, “so how was the transition?” To answer you all, it was fine. It is hard to say whether my harder moments are part of the transition or simply my junior year, new house, quitting crew, and the pressure of the future that seems to be slowly pressing in. I purposefully did not go to a colloquium about graduate school for psychology majors because I thought it would freak me out too much. I did recently attend a fellowships/scholarships meeting or rather a ‘how to get me back traveling again’ brainstorm. Although this got me excited for the possibilities, the future will take a lot of work. And that <——- over there that word in italics is going to be the subject of this post.

So how am I preparing for the future? I go on bike rides. But really, this is preparation. Questions about summer plans came up in January: should I stay in Tacoma? Reasearch psychology? Apply for my own research? Get a radio internship? Go to Montana, not pay rent? Work as a barista? Great options, right?! But when my friend mentioned she was going to bicycle tour around British Columbia en route to Alaska I decided I was game. I am now actively searching for a fishing job in Alaska from June 15th ish until August 5th ish if you know anyone that is looking for crew please, I beg you, give them my name. My other options are cannery positions (16hrs a day, standing in one place, smelling nothing but fish) or something touristy. After talking with so many people about jobs in Alaska that my head is constantly spinning it seems the common recommendation is get to Alaska and figure it out from there. Now my easy-going ego is battling my money-conscious ego. Follow your heart right? You are only young once? When else could I do this? These are my excuses for my choice. The problem is my heart is in many places and when else do I have the opportunities like a summer research grant and undergraduate internships? Well my decision has been made.

So I am biking some. Probably not as much as I should be for someone embarking on hours upon hours on a saddle. But let me tell you my thoughts are quite pre-occupied with Alaska Dreamin’. Then there’s my bluegrass radio show I co-host with my biking partner Wednesday mornings at 7am! Tune into THE SOUND, there is no better way to start your morning. I also decided to be an outdoor leader and go through that training, as well as an orientation leader. I have started writing articles for The Trail in hopes that I can eventually write my own column reviewing KUPS radio shows. I’m working in the Office of the President (man I love saying that). Sometimes I even get to babysit and dog sit two wonderful families. If this is starting to sound a little much, it is for me too. This involvement may be in the name of my future but really I think I’m trying to stay busy so that I don’t think too much about how much I miss my experience abroad.

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Registration, Summer Research, Internship Applications: Spring Semester at UPS

Spring at UPS. Credit: pugetsound.edu

It’s that time of year when the sun begins to emerge from the overcast Tacoma skies, class registration for next year begins, and summer is just around the corner. For many students, Spring is the time for planning next year’s classes, applying for summer jobs and internships, and researching fellowships (as well as getting some sun in before finals!).

Class registration at some colleges is fairly stressful because it is difficult for underclassmen to enroll in the most popular classes, and students sometimes get locked out of classes that they need for their majors. At the University of Puget Sound, class registration has always been a completely seamless process for me. Although registration is based on seniority and class standing, underclassmen really should not worry about being unable to add classes that they want or need to take. For one thing, students never need to fear missing out on important classes for their majors because professors will almost always add students interested in majoring in a subject to classes that must be taken early in order to graduate on time. For example, Introductory Chemistry, Biology, Computer Science, English, and Calculus all tend to allow students who are planning to major even if the classes fill early (or additional sections are added if there is enough interest). Even if certain classes do close early, there is movement into and out of almost every class before classes start, so students can wait-list classes in order to prioritize their entry to a class that is full. I was admitted to two classes that I waitlisted last semester – in fact, I believe everyone on their respective wait lists were added eventually. However, most students can register for their entire schedule without waitlisting anything because underclassmen usually take 100 and 200 level classes that prepare to accommodate many students by adding plenty of sections. For more detailed information on class registration, here’s a link to UPS’s class registration page: http://www.pugetsound.edu/academics/academic-offices/academic-advising-registrar/register-for-classes/

Having a class schedule in place is great, but another exciting part of Spring semester is preparing for jobs and internships. I have been interning at Oregon Health Science University’s (OHSU) biochemistry department for the past three summers, and I plan to return this summer as well. Conducting university research is a fantastic opportunity because it allows you to put your knowledge into practice, ensuring that you have truly mastered a subject and can make new advances in the field. Working in the biochemistry lab was always extremely exciting because I was doing work that nobody had done before, and every experiment involved a new, original technique, some of which I had personally developed.

While I will work at OHSU to continue an ongoing project, there are countless opportunities to conduct both science and humanities research at the University of Puget Sound. Puget Sound offers grants to students of about $3,000 to support original, summer research in the sciences and humanities. Students who want to conduct research work with a professor in their research area to plan an original project, then write and submit a proposal outlining the a description of the project and its significance, preliminary data and/or research, a budget, and other relevant information. The project proposals are then evaluated by a faculty committee and grants are awarded to students at the end of the year. Summer research is very exciting, and summer is the perfect time to focus in-depth on a project. To support the long term, 8-10 week research commitment, Puget Sound is also offering summer housing to students who are working on research on campus. Research grants are also available during the school year, and many students who participate in research receive class credit for their work during the school year.

In addition to conducting research this summer, I plan to continue working with my brother on a new musical. This musical is based on a one-act play that he wrote called, Splat, and we currently have the piece outlined and a number of the songs written. I won’t give away the details yet because we are still in the process of writing the musical, but it should be an exciting summer project. These sorts of artistic projects, much like summer research, are great to work on during the summer because there is so much uninterrupted time to focus on writing. Lots of students also intern with local artistic organizations in Tacoma or Seattle – museums, theaters, music organizations, etc. Internships are not limited to artistic organizations, of course, and many corporations look to hire undergraduate interns during the summer. There are many opportunities for paid internships in any area if you look hard enough, and the career services resources at Puget Sound are great for helping students find internships.

In addition to planning for summer internships and projects, the University of Puget Sound’s Fellowships Office helps students plan further ahead for post-graduate fellowships such as Fulbright, Watson, and Truman fellowships. Because many applications are due to the Fellowships Office in the fall and winter, students make appointments in the spring with the Fellowships Office to plan to research and prepare for various postgraduate fellowships. And, yes, UPS has an entire office devoted to assisting students in finding and qualifying for post-grad fellowships.

That’s all for now – planning ahead for summer is exciting, but there is still a lot left to do before the end of the school year (which is amazingly only six weeks away – this year has gone fast!), including rehearsing for a senior theatre thesis festival play, writing and researching papers, practicing for piano lessons, meeting with advisors to schedule classes, and writing applications for jobs and club positions for next year.

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Coffee Dates Pt. II – Circumstance

If you haven’t read my coffee dates blogpost, you can read it by clicking HERE. I’m a little behind on my goal of 75. I’ve had about 30 coffee dates with truly wonderful people, and I need 45 more by May 10th. Thank you to all of you who contacted me via email. It’s been very helpful in the past hectic few weeks.

I want to share a few things I’ve learned from my most recent of coffee dates.

One of my dates told me that they’ve never been approached by a random person before asking them out for coffee, and that it was actually refreshing that they got to meet someone completely new. I was so happy to hear this, because this is exactly the reaction that I want people to have. I proceeded to tell her how easy it was to initiate a coffee date. Hell, my success rate so far is 98%, and I’m not even the most gregarious of people. My point is, most people are receptive, and if you want to initiate contact with someone you don’t know, you should just go ahead and do it.

Additionally, I was struck by her saying that it was refreshing to meet someone completely random, and this begs the question as to why we never choose to meet random people.

I would love to meet this person... along with everyone else from awkwardfamilyphotos.com

Are we constantly profiling people to the extent that it inhibits us from meeting people that we assume would be incompatible with our interests and personality? I hope nobody ever says, “he’s in a frat, so he probably drinks all the time and our friendship probably wouldn’t be compatible with my substance-free lifestyle.” If you do, then you should probably read a (really good) Puget Sound blog post that debunks myths about Puget Sound Greek Life (click HERE).

There has to be some selection mechanism in the way we meet people. In fact, there are times when I choose not to initiate a conversation with someone because he/she exhibits some standoffish behavior and suggests that he/she doesn’t want to meet new people. Or, so it seems. Of course, these are all unfounded assumptions. Unless I acquired data from a controlled study, there is absolutely no evidence indicating that he/she would not want to get coffee with me.

So let me ask you (the reader) this: How do you meet people? Does circumstance dictate who you meet? What conditions must be met for you to step outside your comfort zone and open up to someone?  Do you have to have mutual friends? Maybe you have to be at an off-campus party and have a drink in hand?

Or, maybe it can be anywhere with a drink in hand. I wonder how many people I could meet if I carted around a watercooler with a sign that said “FREE WATER.” Maybe we can turn the term “watercooler talk” into a good thing. If someone wants to supply me with a portable water cooler, I’m game. Challenge accepted.

Or maybe you're the type that need more dire circumstances.

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Life as a Normal Student

Life as a normal student, Day 22: Had to print handouts for my entire class today. Had to go to the library, since I can’t use the office Xerox machine anymore. That meant waking up thirty minutes earlier, finding an available computer in the library basement, waiting for other students to finish printing, and then staple each of the fifteen handouts individually. It’s rough out here, I’m telling you.

Kidding. Kind of.

One of the perks of being done: a trip home to see my dog, Kenzie

My apologies for the lack of blogs as of late. I’ve been writing a lot, actually; just not for the school blog. Along with the variety of essays that most UPS students are constantly working on, I wrote a 20,000-word continuity for the next ASUPS President, three short pieces of fiction for my creative writing class and three blogs for the Huffington Post.

But I’m back, at least momentarily.

Dean Segawa was kind enough to stop by and say hi to me the other afternoon while I was studying where “normal kids” study: tables in the second floor of Marshall Hall (and not the spacious confines of the ASUPS office). Of course, his first question was: “How is life not being President?”

My answer? Great.

People seem to keep expecting me to exhibit some nostalgic longing, but I couldn’t be further from doing that. It’s not that I don’t care incredibly about the ASUPS—and even more for the people who I got to work with in my job as president—but rather it’s a sense of completion. I feel like we achieved what we set out to achieve, and now I am 110% confident that the next administration—led by Brian Ernst and Rachel Borsini—will keep it going in a positive direction with their own innovative, passionate leadership. When you’re satisfied with the work you did, and fully-confident in the work that is going to be done by the next administration, it is easy to look forward rather than backward.

An incredible team to work with

That stage of my college experience—and it was an indescribably-fulfilling stage—is over, and I’m ready for the next stage: preparation to leave UPS. In a little over two months, I’ll arrive in Mississippi to begin training for Teach For America, and in another two months I’ll be standing at the front of my own classroom. Needless to say, there is a lot of preparation left to do.

So for the next two months, I’ll finish up the academic requirements left for me, start packing/prepping for TFA, go to the gym more often, take a nap every now and then, and—this is weird to type—begin getting ready to say good bye to the place I’ve called home for the greater part of the past four years.

I’ll try to blog a little more often than I have been, but I won’t promise anything. My first priority is spending time with all the people I’ve come to know at Puget Sound, since in a couple months time will have expired on that opportunity. This school has been inexplicably kind to me, and I have two months left to say goodbye.

Time to get to work.

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Theatre In The Pacific Northwest

The University of Puget Sound has a countless number of artistic, academic, and athletic events going on all the time, which means that there is always something to do at Puget Sound. Between the music department’s orchestra, band, jazz, choir, and opera concerts and performances; the theatre department’s four main theatre events; Student Theatre’s various performances; exhibits at the on-campus art museum, Kittredge Gallery; several departmental research talks; and year-round sports events, there is plenty to do on-campus in terms of student life.

Of course, Puget Sound is also situated in a great area for arts and cultural events, and I thought I would talk today about the many off-campus performances, exhibits, and opportunities. While concerts, art exhibits, and other cultural events abound, I will focus on theatre in the Pacific Northwest since I have been seeing a lot of off-campus theatre lately.

There are many great theatres thirty minutes to an hour from campus. The Seattle Center is home to multiple theatres, including the Intiman Theatre (which will reopen this summer), Seattle Children’s Theatre, and perhaps the most well-known Seattle theatre, Seattle Repertory Theatre. Plus, the ACT theatre is only a few blocks away – that’s right, the Seattle Center houses not only the Space Needle, but also lots of theatre.

Seattle Repertory Theatre (or Seattle Rep) just finished playing Red, a tony-winning play about artist Mark Rothko, known for painting canvases covered in red. The play presents a fascinating look at the relationship between past and present, artist and businessperson, and the challenges of creating and maintaining an original artistic voice, all seen through the lens of Rothko’s interactions with his painting assistant. The New York Times describes it as, “a combative Socratic dialogue between teacher and pupil, a master class of questions and answers about the methods and purpose of Rothko’s art.”  Although I did not get a chance to see the Seattle Rep production, I did see the play in Portland at Portland Center Stage, and it was one of the best plays I have seen recently (more about that later). It closed this weekend at Seattle Rep, but up next is what should be another great play, Clybourne Park.

Also located a short distance from Puget Sound is the Village Theatre in Issaquah, Washington. In addition to performing five mainstage shows per year, the theatre is known for developing original musical theatre in its Village Originals “Festival of New Musicals.” The Village Theatre produced and developed the short musical, Feeling Electric, which became the Pulitzer-Prize winning Broadway musical, Next to Normal. The Village Theatre also produced and developed the Broadway musical, Million Dollar Quartet. It Shoulda Been You, currently playing at the Village Theatre, is eying a potential Broadway run in 2012. The Village Theatre is a great place to see some of the newest musicals that have the potential to make it to Broadway, and it is conveniently located less than 30 minutes from Puget Sound!

If you are willing to venture a bit further from campus, Portland, Oregon, just two and a half hours from campus, is home to an exceptional theatre scene. The two main equity houses in Portland are Artist’s Repertory Theatre and Portland Center Stage.

I had the opportunity to see plays at both theatres over spring break and I was thoroughly impressed. Portland Center Stage’s performance of Red was masterfully produced. The two actors completely embodied their characters (quite a feat, too, for the actor playing world-famous artist Mark Rothko). The set was extremely well-designed and dynamic, depicting Rothko’s studio and his abstract art, but ultimately and tellingly placing the imaginary canvas that Rothko observed and developed across the proscenium, at the interface between actor and audience, artist and viewer.

At Artist’s Repertory Theatre, I had the chance to see Race and Circle Mirror Transformation. Race is a play by David Mamet that examines racial issues in the court system. Mamet has a way of taking challenging issues and bringing them, literally, center stage, and he accomplished it to great effect with this piece. The cast was an exceptional small ensemble, and their fast-paced, impassioned performances kept me enthralled the whole time. Circle Mirror Transformation, a quirky comedy about an acting class that quickly grows very personal, was also a fun and well-performed piece. The acting was consistently impressive, the direction was great, and the play’s minimalist set worked quite well. Having done almost all of the acting exercises that the characters perform in the show at one point or another, I could certainly relate! Artists Rep will also be producing Next to Normal to close off their season, making it one of the first regional theatres to obtain the rights to the musical and which I look forward to seeing.

There is certainly no shortage of exceptional off-campus theatre in the Pacific Northwest. I’ve only mentioned a few of the larger theatres, too – there’s a huge variety of theatres all over Seattle and Portland that present all types of theatre. The one drawback to theatre is that it can be expensive, especially at the bigger houses, but many theatres offer generous student discounts and ushering gets you in to most shows for free.

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Accidentally blogging through cold molasses

I had a redundant epiphany today. One where you suddenly realize something you knew all along but, as David Haskell puts it, the top of your head blows off.

David actually had something to do with it. Haskell is a professor of biology at the University of the South in Sewanee, TN, and author of the recently released The Forest Unseen. Through a grad-school friendship with our own Professor Peter Wimberger, Haskell made a stop at Puget Sound today to talk about his book, the process and results of writing it, and how cool Peter was in grad school.

In common Puget Sound form, I had a chance to have lunch with this scholar (a perk I will certainly miss when they finally kick me out in May–the scholars that is, not the free lunch. Well, both). Haskell told us about how he decided on the ‘methods’ of the book and framed the narrative, how he benefited from the discipline of forest observation and contemplation, and why he saw the need for a biologist’s view of a mandala-size plot of Tennessee forest floor.

Haskell talked about wanting a way to communicate to nonspecialists the stuff about the world that made the ‘top of his head blow off’ and his ‘heart sing’. Although I’ve never stated my feelings about nature in quite that way, I know exactly what he’s getting at. Like how I squeal and exclaim EVERY TIME I watch the leopard slug sex video and throw my hands up in disbelief when other people don’t think it’s as OVERWHELMINGLY AWESOME as I do.

Haskell conveyed his awe with stories about a square-meter of forest floor that he observed over the course of a year. The stories began as observation and grew into contemplations about ecological metaphor and natural implications for human consciousness and connectedness, skillfully drawing a bio-101 event out into the consideration of the cosmos generally reserved for Marxists and monks. The writing was well-crafted and deliberate, to organically mingle ecology jargon with philosophical thought, like well-lubricated cilia tickling Paramecium smoothly through pond scum (see, I’m not as good at it).

Haskell was engaging and funny, well-versed in other disciplines like poetry and philosophy, and clearly hugely passionate about his work and his field. And such a good writer.

I, as a would-be English major turned biology major, who completely planned on being a writer until college (and a few poignant interactions with David Attenborough and David Lupher*), ask myself every time the classwork gets really tough whether I’ve made the right choice. Do I really have the analytical sort of brain necessary for science (even if I have selected the squishiest of sciences, it can sometimes require some hard thinking)? Especially when I find myself writing regularly just for fun, but never doing stats or crafting experimental materials and methods just for kicks. When it comes to pure enjoyment or innate abilities, it doesn’t seem that I really lean toward ‘science’. What I like are all those head-top-blowing-off stories about Life, that happen to be investigated through an avenue of study we call science. Plus, I think words are just the funnest of Lincoln Logs and are truly the media through which humanity builds its finest creations.

So, to hear a love of language from a successful, published (both in science journals and recreational literature), eloquent biologist was (excuse the fluff) both comforting and inspiring.

I left invigorated about biology and the world and writing and people and snails and college and all things good.

And then I went to cell biology.

Specifically, I attended the senior thesis presentation of a very good friend–a friend who I love and respect you and whose work I admire. I even followed along fairly easily with the presentation even though it’s been a few years since I took Cell Biology! But I just couldn’t get into it. Amorphous abbreviations for things I can’t even imagine like gene activators and cell adhesion proteins just wafted over my gray matter without so much as a tremor of enthusiasm, let alone making my heart sing. This stark comparison to the glee I had just left with David Haskell made something I already knew profoundly more obvious: I like big science. But not only do I like big science, I like big science in the context of bigger ideas. And what’s more, that is a legitimate thing! To be honest, I’ve always felt a little guilty about not being excited about tiny bio. Cells and genes and molecules are simply beyond me, at least as a field I could ever hope to advance. But there are other fields for me, like the flooded lawns of north Florida being invaded by giant African snails. I’m coming to save you, Florida fields! Via an expert and unusual understanding of snail reproductive biology and a passion for conveying invasive species information to the public in an entertaining and accessible manner! (says the Mary of the future).

David Haskell’s visit today was a hopeful sign that I will someday find a way to blend my love of writing and ridiculousness with my wonder at the biotic world and its specific medium of study we call ‘science’. This would actually be my dream job, though I’m not exactly sure what that job would be…I suppose it will be whatever creative project I can find to be fired-up about after I’ve established myself as a brilliant scientist.

But as Haskell said, sometimes you have to ‘make your way through cold molasses’ to achieve some practical goals before you get to the fiery stuff. So, I turn back to my molasses.

You see, I’m sitting in my lab on a Friday night, trying to turn into a brilliant scientist using a calculated mix of canned caffeine and the wisdom of the internet. Which sounds like a good way to become a fat kid with no friends IRL, but not to write my senior thesis. Alas, it is what must be done and this blog was an accident.

*I feel like there’s a David thing going on here…This is getting weirdly biblical.

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OOOoooh… We’re halfway there!!

Snowy Owl!

Wow, hard to believe that the semester is halfway over already. The end of the school year looks so much closer on this side of spring break.

Things that have happened since last post:

As always, awesome field trips!! My ornithology class drove out to Ocean Shores, WA to look at an irruption of Snowy Owls. Unfortunately, this doesn’t mean taking a fieldtrip to Hawaii to look at lava… An irruption is a sudden increase in an organism’s population size. Snowy Owl irruptions occur about every 4-5 years in relation to the population size of their prey, lemmings. Labs in my Ornithology course have been really interesting; we’ve also been able to spend some time doing bird surveys in the area and dissecting birds to learn about internal anatomy and specimen preparation.

Regatta number 1. We had our first regatta the weekend before spring break! We raced in a dual (only two teams) against Willamette University. It was really great to be back on the water and moving fast. Per annual tradition, we had some fun jumping into the lake following the regatta. Our next regatta is this weekend, which will be much bigger with about ten teams. Head out to American Lake if you’ve never seen a regatta!

Spring break!! It is currently the week after spring break, and as always a

Rowing in the snow!

little difficult getting back into the classes/homework schedule… especially when my sister sends me texts about what she’s doing on HER break. I stayed in Tacoma over spring break for daily-double crew practices. The weather here was crazy! We had everything across the board: wind, rain, hail, and sun. And usually combo within one practice, which kept us on our toes.
We did get a weekend break from practices, and I was able to go home for a day, and Portland for the next, which was a much-needed break from rowing. I actually happened to go home during spring break of my freshman year and by coincidence took two very similar pictures.

2009

2012

Thesis: Yikes. How is it the middle of March already? I’ll be giving an oral presentation of my thesis at the Phi Sigma Symposium in April, which is coming all too soon. I anticipate I will be spending a significant amount of time in front of a computer for the next few weeks in order to tie up loose ends.

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March/Spring Break Adventures

Hey all! Sorry about my recent posting absence (midterms sort of kicked my butt) but no worries I’m back and ready tell you all about these past few weeks.
Let’s start with my recent Spring Break trip down to LA with two of my housemates. Our adventure began with a 7a.m. flight out of Sea-Tac which meant leaving the house at 5a.m.( which was actually 4 a.m. since Daylight’s Savings Time had just begun two hours prior!) We made it through security half asleep and upon arrival to our terminal quickly downed our much needed coffee. Finally we were able to board our flight and we were on our way to LA! After about two and a half hours we finally made it to LA! After grabbing our bags and chatting with a friend I ran into from UPS (small world) we ran to catch our shuttle to the rental car company. Once outside I quickly put on my sunglasses to guard my eyes from the light of this thing called the sun, which despite the rumors, actually exists! We made it to the rental company in one piece and I was able to pick up our first rental car and drive off into the LA traffic with. After four days of driving in LA I’m proud to report the only damage to the car was a small scrape on the bumper…SUCCESS! Our first stop was the hotel where we smuggled out pool towels to take to the beach. The next day we decided to check out Venice and Muscle beach (definitely my favorite part of the trip) and Santa Monica where we got to watch a few photo shoots and some really good skateboarders, and of course soak up the sun on the beach! On Tuesday we decided to head to Huntington beach, again to soak up some Vitamin D and watch the talented and, dare I say, gorgeous surfers! On our way back we stopped at my favorite froyo place ever, Pinkberry, so my housemate could experience the deliciousness for her first time! For our final full day in LA we decided to head back to Venice one last time to soak up as much sun and Venice Beach shenanigans as we could. After a day at the beach we met up with another friend of ours from UPS for dinner and got caught up on each other’s vacations. We flew out Thursday morning and made it back to Tacoma in one piece and few shades tanner!


The previous couple weeks were a little less exciting, with the exception of two awesome days! The most special of those days being Leap Day, which was the day my new niece was born! She was a healthy 6 pound 15 ounces and I can’t wait to get home to see her in person!The other exciting day being International Women’s Day/ Feminist Coming Out Day which is the day to proclaim your passion for equality and celebrate how far women have come and also a great day to wear your best pro-equality/pro-feminist attire!

In honor of International Women's Day, one of my favorites! Property of http://feministryangosling.tumblr.com/

I hope everyone had some great R&R over Spring Break! Have a great first week back!!

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Can we grab coffee sometime?

I am a second semester senior, and although I currently have a thesis to write that I’ve been slacking on, classes to catch up on, and graduate schools to visit, I have a big personal project I’m undertaking. It’s called “Meeting New People.”

When: Feb 1st to May 10th

What: 75 coffee dates with either people who I’ve never met before or acquaintances/mutual friends who I don’t know very well

Where: University of Puget Sound campus

How: My 5-step plan,

Step 1: Encounter new people at parties, the SUB, waiting in line, etc.

Step 2: Engage in small talk

Step 3: Ask them on a coffee date

Step 4: Get number, set up time, etc.

Step 5: Get to know them in the 30-60 min coffee date.

Research shows that coffee is the best social lubricant (based on a true study I just made up). (I do not own this photo)


Why I’m doing this:

If someone were to ask me what I’d miss most about Puget Sound, I would say, “my friends.”

But after a brief epiphany I think I would correct myself and say “the opportunity to make new friends.”

In my four years at Puget Sound, I’ve realized that everyone here is friendly: I know my professors as friends rather than as teachers; I’m still on good terms with people that I briefly met 3.5 years ago during Orientation; and having personal conversations with cafeteria and security workers is not uncommon.

The people here are friendly, but not everyone is proactive about making friends.

Not even me.

In fact, most of my friendships were made by chance (e.g., we lived together, she was in my group project, we were on the same athletic team, etc.). Life is too short to wait for friendships “to happen,” so why shouldn’t I jump at the chance to purposefully meet random people, especially those whose paths are least likely to converge with mine (theater/english/music majors, people who live off-campus, freshmen, etc.)?

After all, outside of college, it’s probably never going to be THIS easy to make new friends. Shoot, when in my lifetime will I be surrounded by 2,500 people my age ever again? This could be the greatest opportunity for me to get to know as many people as I can.

And meeting new people isn’t for the sake of increasing numbers. It’s about immersing myself in the boundless human variety that Puget Sound offers. You’d be amazed at how much you can learn about someone in less than an hour of talking. In fact, every single person from my 22 coffee dates (so far) has taught me something new.

What’s stopped me in the past?

I feared rejection and what people will say about me. That’s it. Plain and clear. These irrational fears, along with my wild imagination, were huge hindrances for me to meet new people.

“What if my professor thinks I’m a brown-noser and tells the entire department? I’ll never be taken seriously.”

“What if she thinks I’m predatory? Oh no, she’ll tell all her friends and every girl on campus will shun me forever.”

“What if he thinks I’m hitting on him? Oh no, he’ll tell his friends and now every guy I talk to will think I’m hitting on them.”

These nonsensical scenarios have never happened (at least, not to my knowledge).

Also, last year, I embarked on a journey called Rejection Therapy (click HERE for rules), a month-long game in which the only rule is that you must be rejected by another person everyday. I did this with one of my best friends and we texted each other whenever we got “rejected” (click HERE to find out what counts as a rejection). It really helps to have a friend to keep you accountable in this game. After just two weeks into the game, I gained a lot of self confidence, and realized that most people are very receptive and are rarely ever unkind.

I feared being rejected by these people. (I do not own this photo)

What I can expect to gain:

New friends. New insights. Better conversational skills. Lessened fear of rejection. Coming out of my shell, and a chance to inspire others to come out of their shell.

What you can do right now

1) If you ever feel that this campus has gotten dull, try making new friends. Next time you’re in line at the SUB, start a conversation with the person right behind you. It’s as simple as “hey, how’s it going?”

2) Email me at wdang@pugetsound.edu so we can schedule a coffee date! I’m really far behind on my goal of 75.

3) Bookmark this page so I can update you on what I’ve been learning from my coffee dates so far!

My next big coffee date is with our university president, Mr. Ron Thomas himself. Luckily, he’s always in Diversions Cafe every Monday morning, so I know exactly where to find him!

I leave you with the wise words of Chris Traeger from Parks and Recreation,

“I’m not alone. I’m surrounded by friends… Friends I don’t know yet.”

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