{"id":3254,"date":"2016-04-23T23:51:38","date_gmt":"2016-04-23T23:51:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/?p=3254"},"modified":"2016-04-23T23:51:38","modified_gmt":"2016-04-23T23:51:38","slug":"memory-box-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/2016\/04\/23\/memory-box-2016\/","title":{"rendered":"Memory Box 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019ve kept journals on and off for most of my life, but somewhere around the beginning of college I wanted a way to physically save memories. Words were helpful in preserving the way I felt at a particular moment, but I wanted something palpable. In the pre-college flurry, in the middle of hunting for different organizational supplies (because <i>this year was going to be different, everything would have a place at last<\/i>), I developed an idea. I purchased a few small plastic boxes and labeled them with the year. Throughout the course of the year, I would fill a box with scraps of paper, pieces of memories. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It worked. Better than I thought it would, if we\u2019re being completely honest. The box from<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>is tucked away at home, the 2015 box is a mess of memories, and the 2016 box from this semester is nearly overflowing. Here are some of the things inside:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/FullSizeRender1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3258\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/FullSizeRender1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/FullSizeRender1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/FullSizeRender1-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/FullSizeRender1.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">PostSecret was founded by Frank Warren in 2005, wherein people mail their secrets to him anonymously via a homemade post card. I went to the show with two of my best friends and we all literally laughed and cried as actors read off some of the secrets and online community responses to the secrets. After intermission, the actors read off secrets written by audience members. My favorite was: \u201cMy husband and I had sex on my boss\u2019s desk, while she was away on vacation. I just made eye contact with her in the audience.\u201d All of the secrets can be found online at: <a href=\"http:\/\/postsecret.com\/\"><span class=\"s2\">http:\/\/postsecret.com\/<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2686-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3256\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2686-1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2686-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2686-1-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2686-1.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Every year around Valentine\u2019s Day, flowers can be purchased in the sub as a fundraiser for one of the sororities. This year, Nathan sent me one. The card reads: \u201cYou\u2019re a good friend\u2026 I guess\u2026\u201d TRUE FRIENDSHIP GOALS.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2689-e1461455363374.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3257\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2689-e1461455363374-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_2689\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2689-e1461455363374-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2016\/04\/IMG_2689-e1461455363374.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Every semester Ubiquitous They puts on a comedy show. I rushed from one event to the show this semester and wasn\u2019t the least bit disappointed. There was one specific sketch that has stuck with me: A TV host announces to an excited girl that they\u2019ve found her mother who has been lost at sea. She begins jumping up and down as a crew of people carry out her dead mother\u2019s body. On my left, tears were leaking out of Thomas\u2019s eyes as he laughed. On my right, Banji had one hand covering his mouth in a frozen state of shock.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Here is a list of everything else in the box:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">My ticket and program from RENT, which was the student theater production this semester.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A sticker for <i>Crosscurrents. <\/i>It is watercolored blue and apparently <i>Crosscurrents <\/i>was founded in 1958? <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A Valentine\u2019s day card from my grandparents.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A list of \u201cThings I Know\u201d that was originally made as a reference point to spring off of for poetry. The list claims such things as: \u201cthe Ferris Wheel was designed for the 1893 Chicago World\u2019s Fair\u201d and \u201cmy first word was \u2018hi.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A tie-dye postcard advertising WORD STOCK 2016, which put on by the English department on the 25th of April.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sketches from a workshop put on by Krista Franklin, a visual poet. She had everyone dig through magazines and lead us to create our own visual poetry. It was interesting and a lot of fun, particularly because I haven\u2019t made a collage since I was in elementary school. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A piece from one of those magazines, that I thought was interesting. Underlined is a quote from one of the people being interviewed: \u201cGift. For not drowning.\u201d Not sure why it sprung out at me, but it did.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">My notes from the Jonestown Survivor speaker. It was an amazing presentation and I have so much sympathy for the amount of long-term trauma being in Jonestown caused.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A letter from Maddy, that claims: \u201cYou are a wonderful person, and I think everything becomes better when you are around. Even at 9:30 in the morning.\u201d Apparently, Emily compared the letter I got from Maddy to the letter she got \u2014 which began: \u201cDear fartface.\u201d <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">My wristband from the dance put on by Beta, with my name spelled Telena. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Bits of curly ribbon that were tied onto the fruit basket Emily got for her birthday. We sat out on Todd Field, soaking up the sun and eating strawberries. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Adam Lewis\u2019s name tag from Career Fair. Not sure why I have it, tbh. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">An exercise from the Suicide Prevention and Awareness workshop that was put on this semester. We were tasked with originally writing down twenty-four words that described our life. That was slowly broken down, so we were left with one word. Mine? Laughter. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">The bag tag that I got over spring break, when I went down to Vancouver to visit Maddy and meet up with Emily. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">My wristband from the first time I went to the Museum of Glass.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A poster advertising <i>Crosscurrents<\/i>. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Notes made by Banji, from back when we were coming up with theoretical short film plot lines.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">My receipt from January, when I bought some of my textbooks at the bookstore. Grand total from this one trip? $469.97.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Notes someone from my poetry class took on one of my poems. A sestina, titled \u201cGeneralized,\u201d that I wasn\u2019t sure how I felt about, but everyone else seemed to love. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A card from the Office of Finance given to me for Student Appreciation Week.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">A letter from my best friend that took me way to long to respond to. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">The program from Underground Sound\u2019s 2016 Spring Concert, which was amazing. <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve kept journals on and off for most of my life, but somewhere around the beginning of college I wanted a way to physically save memories. 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