{"id":2403,"date":"2015-11-07T04:50:50","date_gmt":"2015-11-07T04:50:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/?p=2403"},"modified":"2015-12-07T22:57:31","modified_gmt":"2015-12-07T22:57:31","slug":"four-memories-at-point-defiance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/2015\/11\/07\/four-memories-at-point-defiance\/","title":{"rendered":"Four: Memories at Point Defiance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Despite its location so close to campus, I\u2019ve only been to\u00a0Point Defiance\u00a0four times.<\/p>\n<p><b>Time One: The Rose Garden<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It was the Saturday of Fall Break, my freshman year, and it was the only time I\u2019ve ever used the ever-handy Saturday Shuttle service campus has to offer. There were five of us, sitting comfortably in the van, and the two students driving gave us cookies as they drove us. We stayed in the front section of the park \u2014 wandering through the rose garden and taking pictures of the flowers, pictures of us together, blurry pictures, and pictures in crisp color.<\/p>\n<p>We stayed in the section for over an hour, pacing back and forth between everything, trying to imprint it all in our brains. Eventually, though, we had our fill. We walked around the pond, took more photos (the ducks in the pond, the changing of the leaves from deep green to burnt orange), and avoided being in the wedding pictures that were being taken.<\/p>\n<p>We ended the day with the ever-popular game of frisbee. A seemingly stereotypical choice, that probably wasn\u2019t the best idea because none of us had played in years. I think we spent more time running in a desperate attempt to catch the disc then we actually spent playing the game. Nonetheless, we had a good time.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2406\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2406\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2406\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Kathryn and Talena, definitely posing, but letting out genuine laughs.\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_5392.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2406\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kathryn and Talena, definitely posing, but letting out genuine laughs.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><b>Time Two: With the (Friend\u2019s) Parents (and Grandmother)<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Spring, 2015. Parent\u2019s weekend.<\/p>\n<p>Claire\u2019s parents had come up from L.A., bringing her grandmother in tow.<\/p>\n<p>We all ended up going to breakfast together, four of us crammed into the back seat of their rent-a-car as we made our way to Proctor District. Claire and her mother talked to each other while splitting pancakes and eggs. Claire\u2019s father bonded with Gaea over their shared love of jazz music. Claire\u2019s grandmother told me I had nice hair and asked me what my major was and told me I had nice hair again. (Actual quote: \u201cHas anyone ever asked you about buying your hair?\u201d) Then, after discovering where in Northern California I was from, she asked me if I knew \u201cthat one restaurant. The famous one.\u201d She seemed thrilled when I finally managed to guess where she was talking about. (The Samoa Cookhouse, okay eggs, overpriced dinner, good for large family functions.)<\/p>\n<p>It was the type of day where the sun couldn\u2019t decide whether or not it was going to peak through the clouds. The type of day where the rain flew sideways in the wind and you felt like you could fly. We piled back into the car. The heater was cranked on and the windows steamed while rain pattered the windows.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere are we going?\u201d Claire\u2019s dad asked, turning this way and that randomly down the winding streets. There was no immediate answer, no immediate desire to go back to campus, but no real solution as to where. I don\u2019t know who came up with the suggestion of Point Defiance \u2014 maybe Claire? \u2014 but one way or another that became our destination.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere is this place?\u201d Claire\u2019s dad asked. \u201cAnd what\u2019s it called again? Point Conception?\u201d Claire looked the type of annoyed where you are trying to hide your amusement while Gaea and I hid our smiles in pressed together lips.<\/p>\n<p>We made it there (eventually) and ended up driving around the five mile loop. We stopped at Owen\u2019s Beach, deciding that it would be a good idea to stretch our legs. We were out of the car for less than five minutes, still walking towards the Sound, when it started pouring. Understandably, we rushed back into the car, and continued on our way.<\/p>\n<p>For someone battling the cold and the rain and the general confusion of being in a new place, it was understandable that Claire\u2019s dad got confused. The exit signs come up quick and it is easy to pass them. We ended up driving around the loop at least three times, each time somehow missing the exit.<\/p>\n<p>Claire\u2019s dad: \u201cWe might actually be stuck here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Claire\u2019s grandma: \u201cAt least we have each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2404\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0352_2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2404\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2404\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0352_2-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"Dubbed by Gaea, &quot;Awkward woods pic!&quot;  From left to right: Claire, Talena, Gaea. \" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0352_2-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0352_2-403x300.jpg 403w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0352_2.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2404\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dubbed by Gaea, &#8220;Awkward woods pic!&#8221;<br \/>From left to right: Claire, Talena, Gaea.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><b>Time Three: With my\u00a0Mother<br \/>\n<\/b><br \/>\nOne of the side-effects of living your whole life in a small, rural town, is that you aren\u2019t used to driving in densely populated areas. The first time coming up here, my mom was nervous, to say the least. We didn\u2019t do much wandering beyond campus, I think we only even went to Proctor District once. It was all very scheduled, she was on a time-crunch to get back home and I was only thinking about the fact that in a number of days I would be in college.<\/p>\n<p>When she came back in May there was less of a rush. I was keen to show her parts of Tacoma and she was more than willing to see it all. We each got sandwiches from the Met, ginger ale, and one of The Cookie to share.<\/p>\n<p>We went to Point Defiance, sat on a park bench, and had our first meal together in months.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2407\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2407\" class=\"wp-image-2407 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0929-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_0929\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0929-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0929-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0929-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_0929.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-2407\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My mom and I post-picnic dinner.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><b><\/b><b>Time Four: To the Sound<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It was something we had semi-seriously joked about doing for months. <i>Let\u2019s jump in the Sound! Do the Puget Plunge! <\/i>I am honestly still surprised that it actually happened. Maggie sat on the shoreline of Owen\u2019s Beach, I waded in to my knees, bouncing up on my toes as the swell from boats came near.<\/p>\n<p>Claire, Maddy, and Gaea had more of an all-or-nothing attitude about the situation. Freezing in their bathing suits before getting in, I know for a fact that the water was less than enjoyable. It was more of a, \u201cthis is so stupid, but fun and these are the memories they were telling us about making\u201d type of moment for them.<\/p>\n<p>With the three of them shivering, Maggie and I mildly concerned and mildly amused, we went back to the car. Cranked up the heater. Drank hot chocolate. Laughed.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2405\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2405\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2405\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"Maddy, freezing and looking absolutely adorable.\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456-500x282.jpg 500w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/whatwedo\/files\/2015\/10\/IMG_1456.jpg 1136w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2405\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Maddy, freezing and looking absolutely adorable.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite its location so close to campus, I\u2019ve only been to\u00a0Point Defiance\u00a0four times. 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