{"id":1904,"date":"2011-04-11T07:25:25","date_gmt":"2011-04-11T15:25:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studyingabroad\/?p=1904"},"modified":"2011-04-11T07:25:25","modified_gmt":"2011-04-11T15:25:25","slug":"the-grinch-teacher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/","title":{"rendered":"The Grinch Teacher"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-1905\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/041-2\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1905\" style=\"border: 2px solid black;margin: 3px\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/041-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Berlin Wall\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/041-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/041-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/041-624x468.jpg 624w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/041.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Before I delve into this post&#8217;s topic: this section of the <a title=\"East Side Gallery\" href=\"http:\/\/www.berlin.de\/orte\/sehenswuerdigkeiten\/east-side-gallery\/index.en.php?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\">East Side Gallery<\/a> is hilarious. Those glasses&#8230;oh those glasses. Need a historical tip? Click <a title=\"Erich Honecker\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Erich_Honecker\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>(The East Side Gallery is the longest strip of the Berlin Wall that remains after the Cold War.)<\/p>\n<p>It was no secret to my friends and family that I&#8217;ve never really been partial to children. It wasn&#8217;t because I disliked them, although I fondly joked about not liking kids. Nah&#8230;it was more of an indifference, if you will. I tried explaining this to P, my flatmate, once at the very beginning of my Fulbright year. He laughed for about 5 minutes when I told him that I was indifferent to children. (I&#8217;m apparently the first person in his life who was indifferent to children.) You either like or dislike them, P explained people&#8217;s usual reactions to children to me. I&#8217;m afraid that&#8217;s not how I work. Well&#8230;how I used to work.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><!--more--><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-1906\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/attachment\/034\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1906\" style=\"border: 2px solid black;margin-top: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/034-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Trabi\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/034-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/034-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/034-624x832.jpg 624w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/034.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">(A picture of a <a title=\"Trabi\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Trabant\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Trabi<\/em><\/a>, one of the many stereotypical symbols of the former East Germany)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">One of my anxieties about my Fulbright year was working with children. I consulted with many friends of mine who get along with children and work with them on a regular basis. What are children like? How do I handle the troublemakers? How should I treat them? What makes them tick besides chocolate? I wasn&#8217;t afraid of children, oh no, that wasn&#8217;t the problem. I just didn&#8217;t want to seem weak, nonchalant, too enthusiastic or a big ol&#8217; meanie. One of the few memories I still have to this day is how I used to loathe substitutes in school. Although I was a goody two-shoes in school and still treated substitutes with respect, I absolutely disliked substitutes who were unsure of themselves around children, or were terrible at communicating with us. I especially disliked condescending adults.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Children can sense this and feed off of it like my sister&#8217;s dog, Norbert, when he sees someone with an apple. Like children, he can sense when you&#8217;re breaking down, about to give him a piece of your apple. And he&#8217;ll harass you until you give in to his puppy powers. All 6 pounds of him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-1907\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/attachment\/036\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1907\" style=\"border: 2px solid black;margin-top: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/036-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Berlin Wall\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/036-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/036-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/036-624x468.jpg 624w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/036.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Children aren&#8217;t malicious to be malicious but it happens. And I was deathly afraid. What if I end up having a classroom full of screaming 10-year-olds with water guns pointed right at me? Did German children like water guns? I had to do some research and prepare myself.<\/p>\n<p>The kids were sweet when I first started working with them and I was relieved to see that there would be no respect issues, especially because they were disciplined due to their ballet instructors. They&#8217;ve since melted my icy heart of indifference and as any of my friends in Berlin can tell you, I gush whenever I talk about them. My heart&#8217;s grown 3 sizes more and all because of a group of 10- and 11-year-olds.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll end the post here and fill you all in on the details of how they won me over in my next post \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-1912\" href=\"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/attachment\/044\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1912\" style=\"border: 2px solid black;margin-top: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/044-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Berlin Wall\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/044-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/044-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/044-624x468.jpg 624w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/files\/2011\/04\/044.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">(The orb between the two men isn&#8217;t actually part of this painting. It somehow was picked up when I took the picture.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before I delve into this post&#8217;s topic: this section of the East Side Gallery is hilarious. Those glasses&#8230;oh those glasses. Need a historical tip? Click here. (The East Side Gallery is the longest strip of the Berlin Wall that remains &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/2011\/04\/11\/the-grinch-teacher\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[125,234],"class_list":["post-1904","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fall-2010-spring-2011-jill-nguyen-10-fulbright-to-germany","tag-east-side-gallery","tag-teaching"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1904","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/71"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1904"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1904\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1904"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1904"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studyingabroad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1904"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}