{"id":3621,"date":"2013-01-20T19:15:34","date_gmt":"2013-01-21T02:15:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/studentlife\/?p=3621"},"modified":"2013-01-20T19:15:34","modified_gmt":"2013-01-21T02:15:34","slug":"oh-nostalgia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/studentlife\/2013\/01\/20\/oh-nostalgia\/","title":{"rendered":"Oh Nostalgia…"},"content":{"rendered":"

For the last week all I did was sit around my house, half heartedly writing internship applications and reading a couple books on Batman (I\u2019ll probably have a post on that book collection come March, don\u2019t fret), wishing that I was back at school\u2014being back in the swing of the hubbub, always having something to do, enjoying life. But last night when I got off the shuttle and walked through the SUB towards my house, I was completely underwhelmed with a sense of separation. Suddenly I was nostalgic for the biting Minnesota winter that I had just left.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to be overly nostalgic (on the verge of restlessness), especially around the idea of home.<\/p>\n

For those of us just going in to\/getting out of\/in the middle of college, this seems to be a pretty consistent theme. For the first year or two of school many students treat their college more as a residency and their home as their home base, clinging to the melancholy distance they\u2019ve established for themselves. My coping mechanism was being obsessed with Minnesota (and rightfully so, it\u2019s the greatest place ever established by living organisms\u2014insert Minnesota Club plug here).<\/p>\n

In my (somewhat limited) experience, people seem to let go of their \u201chome base\u201d mentality around two-three years in, identifying more with Tacoma, or Washington, or UPS specifically. Within that is two phases\u2014the \u201cnew home\u201d stage and the \u201cbeen-there-done-that\u201d stage. The first is filled with fulfillment and contentment that climbs and climbs\u2014an established community, an understanding of\/identifying with the area, and a sense of present-ness, relishing in every moment. But suddenly the climb topples over the cliff and hits a bottom\u2014we feel like we\u2019ve done what we wanted and crave something different.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where I\u2019m at. I\u2019ve found myself romanticizing anything that I\u2019m not doing and not being quite present. It\u2019s not a discontent but rather a yearning: for what, though, I don\u2019t know. For this reason I don\u2019t think it\u2019s an accident that junior year is mainly when students choose to go abroad (besides credits and stuff.).<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s just me (and the friends I\u2019ve talked about it with), and that\u2019s fine. A plus side of this stage in my college experience is that I\u2019ve more deeply invested myself in my studies and spent more time with people.<\/p>\n

In fact this could explain the blog post that I wrote (and didn\u2019t post) four months ago entitled \u201cCommunities (#SixSeasonsAndAMovie).\u201d In that post I talked about finding\/making friends in unlikely places and putting forth the effort to actually cultivate those friendships (pursue those friend-crushes!!), challenging yourself to do radically new things, and making the most of time in this unique time of our lives (as if I\u2019m one to speak).<\/p>\n

This semester I resolve to break the confines of nostalgia and expand my horizons. Nostalgia has its place, and that\u2019s reflecting on the past\u2014not my present.<\/p>\n

So consider this not a \u201cblog post to see what Ian\u2019s doing\u201d so much as a reflection as we move in to the semester.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll end with the rambling first section of that long never-posted blog post (it\u2019s a bit dated, so bear with me) and I\u2019ll talk to you soon. If you see me around make sure to bother me about updating this more, please and thank you. Until then\u2014to quote a certain Politics professor\u2014party on scholars.<\/p>\n

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Passages Leaders on a Sunrise Adventure<\/p><\/div>\n

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Three weeks ago I began training with my fellow Leaders for Passages, the outdoors portion of Puget Sound\u2019s Orientation program (not to be confused with PSO, Puget Sound Outdoors). As we sat for the first of many times in a circle in the rofunda (yes, it\u2019s called that. Let noone else tell you differently. Ever.) I looked around to find that I only knew about fifteen or so people in the circle \u2014out of 60. In that Aaron Pomerantz moment I felt out of my comfort zone; as if all of a sudden being with people wasn\u2019t easy. There was a lot of awkward small talk and a far too many vague emotionless descriptions of my summer. At the same time that I dreaded this, though, it excited me. I was somewhere I haven\u2019t been in a while; out of my element. I want to meet new people, see faces I\u2019ve never seen, learn about myself, and also learn about something new.<\/p>\n

A man who I greatly admire, Mr. Moeseph Stephens, gave some Moe-st excellent advice at the end of Passages. Relationships, he said (or at least what I remember of it, we were very tired when he gave this speech), aren\u2019t as easy as just showing up. Friendships and relationships of any sort take more than just happenstance encounters; they take real investments of energy and effort. But that kind of effort doesn\u2019t need to be big or grand gestures. His example: make eye contact with the person and say \u201cgood morning.\u201d<\/p>\n

So to you all, dear readers, I say good morning. I hope to see you in unexpected places soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For the last week all I did was sit around my house, half heartedly writing internship applications and reading a couple books on Batman (I\u2019ll probably have a post on that book collection come March, don\u2019t fret), wishing that I was back at school\u2014being back in the swing of the hubbub, always having something to do, enjoying life. But last night when I got off the shuttle and walked through the SUB towards my house, I was completely underwhelmed with a sense of separation. Suddenly I was nostalgic for the biting Minnesota winter that I had just left.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to be overly nostalgic (on the verge of restlessness), especially around the idea of home.<\/p>\n

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