{"id":303,"date":"2009-11-20T18:50:25","date_gmt":"2009-11-20T18:50:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.ups.edu\/cesblogs\/?p=303"},"modified":"2015-07-16T20:17:39","modified_gmt":"2015-07-16T20:17:39","slug":"random-acts-of-networking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/2009\/11\/20\/random-acts-of-networking\/","title":{"rendered":"Random Acts of Networking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the best networking happens when you least expect it. <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/files\/2009\/11\/100_1002.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2090\" style=\"border: 1px solid black;margin: 10px\" title=\"You never know where a networking opportunity might present itself...in line for the bus, at the gym, over a cup of coffee... \" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/files\/2009\/11\/100_1002-300x181.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/files\/2009\/11\/100_1002-300x181.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/files\/2009\/11\/100_1002-1024x619.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.pugetsound.edu\/cesblogs\/files\/2009\/11\/100_1002.jpg 1369w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Saturday morning I was at a coffee shop in Gig Harbor looking for a spot to set up my laptop. Though not crowded, all of the \u201cgood\u201d spots were taken \u2013 the comfy armchairs with the side tables to hold your coffee, away from the sun\u2019s glare that renders the screen unreadable. The only spots left were at the bar facing the window that looked out on the street. Even with the sun obscured by cloud cover it was still too bright to read. Feeling defeated, I was thinking about leaving to find a dark, dank Starbucks.<\/p>\n<p>A woman sitting at a small table in the corner saw me waffling and offered me a spot at her table saying she would be leaving soon anyway. I sat down gratefully and while setting up my techie gear we chatted. It turned out she was just laid off from her job the day before. She asked me what I do, and I enjoyed telling her, \u201cI help people find jobs.\u201d I explained my role here at Puget Sound working with college students. After being surprised by the absolute serendipity of our meeting, she asked me a million questions about things that were burning in her mind.<\/p>\n<p>Her first question was pretty typical: did I know of any jobs in her field? I didn\u2019t, of course \u2013 I work with students looking for entry-level positions, and she was at a senior career level. But she didn\u2019t end our conversation there, as most people would have. She continued to ask questions about things someone in my role might know. <em>What was going on in the job market?<\/em> <em>How had job search techniques changed? What advice did I have for someone looking for work in this economy?<\/em> I couldn\u2019t point her to specific openings, unfortunately, but I was able to help her with all of her other questions and our conversation ended on a very positive note. We exchanged cards, and even though I may not know of positions in her field, if I do hear of something, I will certainly contact her. After all \u2013 she gave me a seat at her table.<\/p>\n<p>There were three things this woman did that made me want to help her:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She showed genuine interest in me and the conversation was natural<\/li>\n<li>She didn\u2019t stop the conversation when I didn\u2019t have an answer to her first question<\/li>\n<li>She asked for the opportunity to stay connected by asking for my card<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Students: keep this in mind as you go about your daily lives. There are times to be very deliberate about networking, say at an event like ASK Night, but more often than not, opportunities just present themselves at random moments. Networking happens every day, and an opportunity can crop up anywhere to make a new connection. You never know who you\u2019re going to meet!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a9 2009 Career and Employment Services, University of Puget Sound<br \/>\nPhoto: Kris Hay<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the best networking happens when you least expect it. Saturday morning I was at a coffee shop in Gig Harbor looking for a spot to set up my laptop. 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